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A feel good positive song and video by Michelle Williams and Destiny’s Child! A gospel song with a touch of Dancehall and R&B flavour, I love it :)
Jul 23, 2014 / 19 notes

A feel good positive song and video by Michelle Williams and Destiny’s Child! A gospel song with a touch of Dancehall and R&B flavour, I love it :)

Jul 22, 2014 / 2 notes

When the CRUSH turns in to LUST, the LUST turns in to LOVE, what do we do then? When a few dates turn into more than what we expected, more than what we anticipated! Part of me is excited, part of me is scared, part of me feels like something big is about to happen so I better be prepared!

Does anyone know the name of this dance???
Jul 20, 2014 / 20 notes

Does anyone know the name of this dance???

Twerkin CiCi! Best female dancer in the industry hands down
Jul 20, 2014 / 7 notes

Twerkin CiCi! Best female dancer in the industry hands down

The turmoils that come with being a female
Jul 20, 2014 / 3 notes

The turmoils that come with being a female





Should we have a checklist for our me??
Having a conversation with my sister she brought up a good point, “if your waiting for Mr right you’ll be waiting forever” - This brings me to the discussion of my title.  Does having a checklist when seeking love limit our emotional encounters with men? If he doesn’t drive that car, if he doesn’t have that job, if doesn’t live in that house we’re simply not interested.  Surely having this perception condemns the most important factor when getting to know a person - is this man a good man.  Of course its fair to have standards, too want some one who fits your needs as well as you fitting theirs.  But too turn a blind eye too the guy who is a bus driver rather than a lawyer is shallow and superficial.  An associate of mine has had a checklist built by herself and her family, one that she has been using for the past few years.  Although I admire the fact that she knows exactly what she wants in a man and will not settle for less, she hasn’t had a male companion in almost 6 years and I cant help to think that her high standards are to blame.   After all, the man who checks every single box in that checklist could just as well end up being the biggest loser you’ll ever meet.












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Jul 20, 2014 / 1 note

Should we have a checklist for our me??

Having a conversation with my sister she brought up a good point, “if your waiting for Mr right you’ll be waiting forever” - This brings me to the discussion of my title.  Does having a checklist when seeking love limit our emotional encounters with men? If he doesn’t drive that car, if he doesn’t have that job, if doesn’t live in that house we’re simply not interested.  Surely having this perception condemns the most important factor when getting to know a person - is this man a good man.  Of course its fair to have standards, too want some one who fits your needs as well as you fitting theirs.  But too turn a blind eye too the guy who is a bus driver rather than a lawyer is shallow and superficial.  An associate of mine has had a checklist built by herself and her family, one that she has been using for the past few years.  Although I admire the fact that she knows exactly what she wants in a man and will not settle for less, she hasn’t had a male companion in almost 6 years and I cant help to think that her high standards are to blame.   After all, the man who checks every single box in that checklist could just as well end up being the biggest loser you’ll ever meet.

That feeling you get when you your in the presence of someone who just manifests sexuality intimacy and lust
Jul 18, 2014 / 1 note

That feeling you get when you your in the presence of someone who just manifests sexuality intimacy and lust

Definitely the song of the summer
Jul 18, 2014

Definitely the song of the summer

Seduction! A woman’s eyes is her most powerful assest
Jul 12, 2014 / 4 notes

Seduction! A woman’s eyes is her most powerful assest

Be a WOMAN not a GIRL!!!! Am I too old to be worrying about making the first move when it comes to the male counterpart? Surely I should have outgrown this phase - I’m 26 and still finding myself - the journey of love has been a testing one and I’ve been through things most women have never experienced.  So why should sending a text or picking up the phone be so difficult, why am I shy? why am I nervous? why do my palms sweat when I think about him.  Love - or should I say lust is something I’m yet to understand
Jul 11, 2014 / 4 notes

Be a WOMAN not a GIRL!!!! Am I too old to be worrying about making the first move when it comes to the male counterpart? Surely I should have outgrown this phase - I’m 26 and still finding myself - the journey of love has been a testing one and I’ve been through things most women have never experienced.  So why should sending a text or picking up the phone be so difficult, why am I shy? why am I nervous? why do my palms sweat when I think about him.  Love - or should I say lust is something I’m yet to understand